Be warned though, if you elope and marry without the permission of the male relative then you’ll be making an enemy for life. Train yourself and your soldiers in training fields. It also brings you closer to the family, provided the marriage was sanctioned.
When you think you are ready to create your own faction you should start to build up this rating by talking to your companions and telling them you want to be king. You can check your Right to Rule rating in your Character Report. Help people among the land by doing quests for them. An important new concept in Mount & Blade: Warband is Right to Rule.Win tournaments to level up and hone your skills.Trade between cities to make a profit off trade items.Become king or queen of all of Calradia.Help lords battle an enemy faction as a mercenary.Raid the villages of enemy factions for food and money.Attack enemy lords and bandits to get started.